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About This Site The Mail Order Brides Site was established in May 2011 as an essential resource for information about how to meet and date foreign women online.
I started this site because I've always wanted to find an Asian wife. In 2009 I finally started looking into it. I have talked to a large number ladies online. This is often as far as far as most mens' dreams go!
So I have taken it one step further. I have visited a number of ladies
in Asia. I booked those flights. I made that trip. I met ladies with 8-9 hours of jetlag to contend with. I got sick after visiting strange restaurants! I've been for dates in skyscrapers, expensive tea shops, restaurants and even factories. Most of all, I visited some exquisitely beautiful and interesting ladies.
I want to share with you my adventures, and my advice for anyone considering finding a foreign bride. Whether you're looking for an Asian, Latin American, Russian or other foreign bride, I'll help you with that search. Want to know which dating sites to use? Want help with those difficult first steps? On The Mail Order Brides Site there's over 100 pages of useful information for helping you in your search for love.
Actually, I'll let you into a secret. Despite the name of this site, mail order brides are a largely outdated concept. Latin America, Russia and Asia are booming these days. Yes you can still find poor farm workers who will marry men 30 or more years their senior. But look on a mail order brides dating site and you're far more likely to find doctors, dentists, translators, teachers and business women. So let's put the mail order bride myths to bed right now. For the record I've dated a women with careers including being a translator, a business lady, an accountant and a graphic designer. For the record two of the ladies earnt more than I did. Look on Chinese Love Links and you'll find plenty of women with PhD's and MBA's. Of course there are also plenty of women who just want to be a housewife. Whatever type of lady you want, you'll find her!
Remember to have fun and enjoy your search for your future partner. The search can be long and hard, but if you make the effort then you can find the foreign bride of your dreams.
Good luck!
Getting Started So you're thinking about finding a foreign bride. How on earth do you get started?
First of all, if you want an foreign wife, you're going to have to do a bit of thinking. Here are some key questions you need to ask yourself:
Can you afford a foreign bride?
What age difference is acceptable?
Which country or continent do you want to find a wife from? Asia, Latin America and Russia are of course popular. Some men also choose to find African mail order brides, and brides from India.
Do you want a lady to live with you in your country, or do you want to live in her country? Countries like Thailand and Panama are attractive retirement destinations, and if you live in a foreign country you'll get your pick of the ladies looking for Western husbands.
Does it matter if she is divorced, has children from a previous relationship or has other baggage? Ladies with baggage aren't always popular with men from their own country, so they often offer a great chance for you.
Does it matter if she doesn't speak English? English is becoming more widely spoken in countries like China. But it's still quite difficult to find an older Thai lady who speaks good English.
Are you sure you know the real personality of foreign ladies? One example – most American men think Chinese ladies are shy and submissive. But the reality is that Chinese ladies are the most confident women I have ever met. Make sure your dreams of a foreign bride are based on reality.
There are also some very basic things that you should do:
Generally speaking, it's better not to tell your friends and family too much about your search for a mail order bride. So in the early stages, it's usually better to keep things to yourself.
We men are told to impress ladies we want to marry. This is true to some extent. But do not fall into the trap of sending ladies gifts and money. Save these for after marriage. A lot of dating sites have flowers and gift ordering services – don't use these.
Take things slowly! Don't spend two weeks on a dating site then rush off to meet the first lady who sends you an email. Take 2-3 months to talk to a whole range of ladies.
On the other hand. Don't take things too slowly! Ladies on dating sites spend a lot of time talking to men who don't deliver. If you say you're going to visit a lady then DO IT! A lady keep her options open until you get that ring on her finger.
Once you've decided on the country you want to find a wife from, then research that country. Read travel books. Buy some self help language books. Showing a lady you know something about her language and culture will impress her no end.
Before you get too involved, make sure you can afford to find a wife from another country. Budget on at least 2 trips to that country a year. Many foreign ladies will also need to help support their families after marriage. Again, this will be money you need to find (at least until you can find your new wife a job). Don't underestimate the money issue – money is incredibly important in countries where there are no food stamps and no social security.
If you haven't got one, apply for a passport!
Choosing a Foreign Bride
Online dating has revolutionised the search for a wife. There are a wide range of dating sites, and you can read about most of them on The Mail Order Brides Site.
Chinese ladies are increasingly popular as mail order brides
If you want to choose the best wife for you, then talk to a lot of ladies! Don't always go for the youngest, or the best looking. Choose a lady who is a little different, and who seems genuinely interested in you. If a lady makes a lot of effort to talk to you a lot then she's interested in you.
One thing to watch out for is that some parts of the world are difficult and/or unsafe to travel to. It's usually a good idea to focus on finding ladies in a city in which you can easily travel to. For China I recommend Guangzhou and Shenzhen. For the Philippines I'd go for Cebu. Thailand is easy – stick to Bangkok. Latin America is often risky to travel to, but companies like A Foreign Affair organise regular trips to Colombia and Costa Rica. For Eastern European and Russian brides, many men travel to Moscow, St. Petersburg, Kiev and Odessa.
Sadly all foreign dating sites have problems in one way or another. Scammers are a major issue. In fact scammers are just as common on Match.com, eHarmony and Plenty of Fish. It is inevitable you will encounter scam ladies so make sure you learn how to spot them. Don't worry too much though – there are plenty of decent ladies on these dating sites, but take your time and learn how to spot them.
By the way, most dating sites are free to sign up to, so try some out and see if you like the look of the ladies on the site. This is how I got started.
Good luck on your search for an foreign bride!
Dating Guides So you want a foreign bride. Do you want a HOT foreign bride? If you do then you'll need to improve your knowledge of foreign ladies. Knowing the dating secrets these experts reveal can make a big difference when it comes to that date with a perfect 10.
Sure, if you've got plenty of experience of dating women in your own country, then you shouldn't have too many problems in a foreign country. Or will you? There are some baffling differences between Western and other cultures. If you're not aware of them then you might have problems with the ladies you meet. It's very easy for a small misunderstanding might end a promising relationship. So if you're serious about finding an foreign wife or girlfriend then take a look at these useful guides.
Chinese Dating Secrets Exposed
When I first started looking for a Chinese wife, I was impressed at how many happy marriages there seemed to be between Western men and Chinese ladies. It was as if the entire Chinese dating scene was a bed of roses. But two years on I know many men whose marriages to Chinese ladies have broken down and ended in divorce.
Look, Chinese ladies are beautiful and can make loving and devoted wives. But my three years on Chinese dating sites have made me realise that most of the women on them are a complete nightmare.
But how do you spot the ladies worth marrying? How do you choose the ideal wife for you, when you know little of the 5000 years of Chinese culture, and when you don't even speak Mandarin? Are you out of your mind in even considering looking for a Chinese wife?
Thankfully a few men have been through all the heartbreak so that you don't have to. Read Chinese Dating Secrets Exposed and you'll avoid making a big and expensive mistake. Read this guide and you'll:
Find out the true character of that Chinese girl you've been chatting to online.
See how to weed out lazy girls.
Find easy ways to spot gold diggers.
Find out how to tell if your nice lady has actually been a mistress.
Learn about common cultural misconceptions that can make or break a relationship with a hot Chinese woman.
If you find that perfect Chinese girl, then how to win over her parents!
Take it from me, I've been to China twice and I am just astonished that men will rush into a marriage that they might regret months later. The Chinese ladies I've met have been very smart and capable of outwitting any man I know. If you want a Chinese wife you'll have to be prepared for every eventuality. Read Chinese Dating Secrets Exposed and you'll have a much better idea of exactly the sort of girl you want to find on Chinese Love Links, Chnlove or another Chinese dating site, and those that you want to avoid at all costs!
Understanding Japanese Women
I've dated a few Japanese women, and I must admit I found them pretty mystifying. One kept walking a few paces behind me. I found that strange. I thought that opening doors for ladies and letting them walk through first was good manners. But not in Japan! Wow, there is a steep learning curve if you want to find and keep that dream Japanese girl.
There are four different types of Japanese woman looking for a Western husband. Could you spot them? Are you already dating a Japanese woman that might not be a suitable marriage partner?
Understanding Japanese Women is a great guide to making sure you know exactly what you're going if you're looking for a Japanese wife. Don't make the mistakes I and many other men have made, read this guide and find out exactly how to handle Japanese ladies.
By the way, Understanding Japanese Women also comes with some great extras, including guides on body language and the law of attraction. You may already know some of this, but it's essential reading all the same. Japanese women are much in demand as wives. I went on Japan Cupid and only found tumbleweed. If you want to find a Japanese girlfriend or wife then you're going to have to go that extra mile, and really know what makes Japanese women tick.
Incidentally, even if you're not specifically interested in Japanese women, then it's also a great read. Many of the chapters do apply to other Asian ladies, especially Chinese ladies! Yes there are tens of thousands of Chinese ladies on dating sites. But if you want to attract the best, then the more you know about Asian females the better.
Ask A Question Use this form to send in any questions you might have about dating foreign ladies. I can't guarantee I can answer them all, but I'll have a go.
If your question could be of benefit to other guys then I'll write an article about it (but I will of course keep your details completely anonymous).
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